Perfect remedy - so what? :D , I m here now! But I'd still like to tell what exactly i mean by 'I wasn't there'.Being simple and short , this being the only passive in whole post! alright , enough juggling :D . From the starting of my teens started the detouring of my self-esteem. In the context that i started feeling intimidated by my peers. I 'd just be afraid all the 'best' I'd see all around. Worse yet i 'd not be encouraged to do something about it on my own , but I'd facsimile , what those people did , that i thought were the best. "Some persons " I 'd be told "are born geniuses" . I 'd deny deny and deny "How could that be? , that would be so unfair!" . The real arguments and counterarguments being away from me , i simply used to use my reason-'of this being unfair' , to support my introversion , and the sense of fear , i felt. I was amazed when i pondered over this , few moments ago , and realized what this has developed into. It has developed in to me turning in to a charlatan. Such quack that when did i actually start to boast about those things that i didn't do , i never got to know! Only now , there is a vague sense of the time when it might have commenced. I wrote my first poem , on the wake of having given a home work in 9th standard. I still revere and adore the teacher that initiated me into writing. People liked the poem , but the first thing i was asked by my english teacher - " It is too good to have been written for the first time , did u use dictionary?". I was so inundated by the attention i was getting , that i lied happily , not recognizing the sarcasm behind the question. And from then on there was always a curtain of inadvertent blatancy. While chatting casually with acquaintances , on being asked( passive voice is very expressive here , bear with the inconsistency with my promise)."what up?" , i 'd make up a thing just slightly heard , appear as if i was an expert. Then one day on being asked by my massi , if i could design logo for her fashion firm , i complied , rather vigorously. Fact was i had no , know how of any photo editing software. I downloaded www.lynda.com's Photoshop CS6 Essential Training , but didn't see long enough to retain , neither practiced that would have helped retaining new things. 3 months passed and i kept procrastinating , giving excuses. Lastly i had an idea. SInce my Sankalpa was obviously not strong , i made a friend of mine do the job , and at last he would be proud calling himself a freelancer. I , being the middle man. I didn't meet my Chachu living in san fransisco on the assumption that i won't have anything to talk about ,as his lifestyle would be very different. I'm literally laughing out loud at such things now :D . The only thing i can boast about ( but shouldn't because i m an amateur , after all) , is my writing. In retrospect , if one'd interview every single person who know me , you'd get up bunch of people in different groups , telling different things about me. Some would say i have great potential which i wont deny. Some would say he feigns too much , i would acquiesce for it is true at times. Some would say , he is independent and can do anything. You could wonder what is that thing that separates the 'few moments back' time with rest of the time. Well i talked to Alisha Di today. I had told her i was a web design enthusiast , and that i know very many things. i was dumbfounded when she asked to solve a scripting problem OVFABI was in . I had to tell her the truth , that i know lil HTML and CSS , and had just started learning javascript. Her innocence summoned me to surrender the pretension of showing off with a knowledge she shared a few minutes after-
Five Types of Restlessness
There are five types of restlessness.
The first type of restlessness is due to the place you are in. When you move away from that place, the street or the house, you immediately feel better. Chanting, singing, children playing and laughing can change this atmospheric restlessness. If you chant and sing, the vibration in the place changes.
The second type of restlessness is in the body. Eating the wrong food or vata aggravating food, eating at odd times, not exercising, and overworking can all cause a physical restlessness. The remedy for this is exercise, moderation in work habits and going on a vegetable or juice diet for one or two days.
The third type of restlessness is mental restlessness. It is caused by ambition, strong thoughts, likes or dislikes. Knowledge alone can cure this restlessness. Seeing life from a broader perspective, knowledge about the Self and the impermanence of everything. If you achieve everything, so what? After your achievement, you will die. Knowledge of your death or life, confidence in the Self, in the Divine, can all calm down the mental restlessness.
Then there is emotional restlessness. Any amount of knowledge does not help here. Only Kriya helps! All that emotional restlessness vanishes. Also the presence of the master, a wise person, or a saint will help to calm your emotional restlessness.
The fifth type of restlessness is rare. It is the restlessness of the soul. When everything feels empty and meaningless, know you are very fortunate. That longing and restlessness is the restlessness of the soul. Do not try to get rid of it. Embrace it! Welcome it! Usually to get rid of it people do all sorts of things - they change places, jobs or partners, do this, do that. It seems to help for some time, but it does not last.
This restlessness of the soul alone can bring authentic prayer in you. It brings perfection, Siddhis and miracles in life. It is so precious to get that inner most longing for the Divine. Satsang, the presence of the enlightened one, soothes the restlessness of the soul. - Sri Sri
And i can only be grateful to the grace the flows through untold means to untold distances....